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Those who call themselves allies are responsible for understanding the contexts in which they speak; they are responsible for recognizing the structures of power from which they derive their privileges. And if this all sounds like too much to ask, then, perhaps, they should reconsider their claims to social justice work.

As Audre Lorde notes in the The Uses of Anger, genuine desire to build with those at the margins requires abandoning defensiveness, guilt, and self-interest. While women fight for the right to exist in a world free of constant mental and physical attacks, our allies cry about their hurt feelings and threatened masculinities.

The Problem With Our So-Called Allies (via harriettumbles)


Such a good reminder for myself! [The gist carries even though I dislike the term “ally.”]

greetings-tothenewbrunette:

The one resource that I wish had been more freely available to me in coming out is better, more accessible pamphlets for parents of adults. I found a lot of great stuff for underage children coming out to their families, but the dynamic is different for offspring…

I would be nine million percent into collaborating on this.

rzrgrrrl:

Can we stop for a moment and think about all of the vaguely ableist and misogynist ways that this idea displaces people who are not temporarily able-bodied? If I, as a physically disabled female-assigned-at-birth (FAAB) person, am physically unable to complete tasks cis men are typically assigned,…

Shared it on the FB, and I’ll share it here, too.

Listen the fuck up.

malformalady:

This goldfish, named Einstein, suffers from swim bladder disease. The ailment, which is common in aquarium fish and controls their buoyancy, caused him to turn upside down and sink to the bottom of the tank. But now things are looking up, after his owner Leighton Naylor, 32, from Blackpool, made him his very own life jacket so Einstein can maintain buoyancy.

malformalady:

This goldfish, named Einstein, suffers from swim bladder disease. The ailment, which is common in aquarium fish and controls their buoyancy, caused him to turn upside down and sink to the bottom of the tank. But now things are looking up, after his owner Leighton Naylor, 32, from Blackpool, made him his very own life jacket so Einstein can maintain buoyancy.

I am always afraid …

… to talk about things in progress, that I have going on; part of my fear is that frequently talking about something can fill the place of actually doing it, and then the thing about which I was talking never ends up getting done.

I think that at times the idea of ‘public accountability’ in talking about an idea is illusory. I know about and am afraid of that illusion because I have experienced it firsthand, and experience it still. I am embarrassed by the number of half-completed [or never-started] projects that I have.

Also, historically, the number of good ideas that never made it past the embryonic idea stage because I prematurely talked them to death has been  staggering. It has been astronomical. And I think that I prefer to mourn the passing of an idea that is dear to me privately.

And, I’m feeling really personally galvanized around generating/curating this workshop, and I really want to do it even though it’s looking less and less likely that I will be able to swing doing it at Butch Voices this year [there’s lots of logistics in play, which will eventually also become apparent], which is typically the first/primary venue that comes to mind for this workshop [for myriad reasons].

But this, this feels so good and energizing. It’s the fabled intersection of what moves someone and what the world needs. This could be [one of] my passion[s].

Don’t fool yourself. English isn’t inherently superior, or easier to learn, or more sonically pleasing. Its international usage comes from forceful assimilation and legacy of colonialistic injection. It isn’t a deed that one should take pride in.
my uncle left this comment on his friend’s Facebook status, a white British man who was bragging about how easy it is to be a native English speaker when trekking to different nations. (via maarnayeri)
And as a reminder to all my white buddies out there, since this was serendipitously asked of me just this morning:
it’s OK to be bummed out or disappointed when we find this out about someone we’re interested in dating. It is not OK to do anything other than accept the fact and understand that there is a really good reason for that choice, and that reason is likely not us specifically. 
If you have questions about your thoughts/sentiments/behaviors after hearing this from someone you’re interested in, please feel free to hit me up and we can talk about it, since probably the person who just told you this is maybe not terribly interested in hearing it.

And as a reminder to all my white buddies out there, since this was serendipitously asked of me just this morning:

it’s OK to be bummed out or disappointed when we find this out about someone we’re interested in dating. It is not OK to do anything other than accept the fact and understand that there is a really good reason for that choice, and that reason is likely not us specifically.

If you have questions about your thoughts/sentiments/behaviors after hearing this from someone you’re interested in, please feel free to hit me up and we can talk about it, since probably the person who just told you this is maybe not terribly interested in hearing it.

fuckyeahsnackables:

inthecompanyofdwarves:

rectumofglory:

girlsgetbusyzine:

dashuri96:

http://www.inglotcosmetics.com/nails/products/141

this retailer sells a halal nail polish. this allows for oxygen and water to go through the nail, which makes it acceptable to wear during prayer. spread the word. 

“Being a relatively modern creation, nail polish remains obviously unaddressed by early Islamic sources. But the general consensus in the Islamic community is that praying with nail polish is impermissible because of the waterproof barrier it creates on nails, which prevents the wudu ritual from being completed five times a day.” (source)

telling all my islamic buds

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

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you have no idea how much it pains me to only be able to use nail polish for a week each month (when i’m on period and not praying)

seriously i need these nail polishes so muchs sdkjflbasdkfbvashjldasdhlkfbasdujasfjvsf;ljgna

Badass!

Attn: @rzrgrrrl!

Further, though, the TOMS campaign — like the million shirts — misses the fundamental point that not having a pair of shoes (or a shirt, christmas toy, etc.) is not a problem about not having shoes. It’s a problem of poverty. Shoelessness, such as it is, is a symptom of a much bigger and more complex problem. And while donating a pair of shoes helps shoelessness, it does not help poverty.

Things like jobs help poverty. Jobs making things like shoes, for example. But TOMS doesn’t make its shoes in Africa, it makes them in China where it’s presumably cheaper to make two pairs of shoes and give one away than it is to get people in a needier community to make one pair of shoes.

The result of this setup, as Zizek explains most succinctly, is that on a big-picture level, TOMS (and other buy-my-product-and-donate companies) are busy building the exploitative global structure that produces economic inequality, while on the other hand pretending that supporting them actually does something to fix it.

It doesn’t. It just gives people shoes.

homedesigning:

Church Gets a Divine Revamp

Attention, @jessiedress!

theearsofgravestones:


 
Hampshire College’s President Jonathan Lash flew the campus flag upside-down and at half-mast  as “a two-fold statement: it is a reclamation of mourning, and it is an act of resistance against the symbolic violence of the American flag.”  
He writes, in an email sent to all students and faculty, “The flag and the state which it represents inhibits its citizens from developing cross-national and cross-cultural solidarity by deeming some people worthy of mourning while deeming others terrorists or criminals.”
In his letter to the Hampshire community, he addresses issues of race, nationalism and state-violence.  His act is in part a response to the Boston Bombings, which, he writes, were “an impetus for us all to consider the powerful symbolism of the flag.”  President Jonathan Lash  encourages the Hampshire community to “to turn a critical eye to the presence of the American flag” which he suggests “is mobilized by state forces in such times of mourning in order to justify further violence”.  
“We at Hampshire now ask: why does the state decide when we mourn?”
President Lash continued:
“In times of tragedy, the American public is urged to combat terrorism with
patriotism. The flag is upheld as a seemingly benign rallying point of
unity and pride, but it is also used to cultivate American exceptionalism
and perpetuate racist oppression. The state strategically brings certain
acts of violence into the public consciousness and excludes others to
create a culture wherein continued state violence is condoned.” 
This follows a recent campus-wide forum entitled, “The Flag on Our Front Lawn,” in which students engaged in an open dialogue about the flag’s prominent placing. This also marks a turn in Hampshire history, as it breaks a decades-long streak of administrative complacence with neoliberalism.
For the full letter to the community, click here.  


Augh I wish I’d attended Hampshire sometimes. This is one of those times.Speaking truth to power from quite the pulpit.

theearsofgravestones:

 

Hampshire College’s President Jonathan Lash flew the campus flag upside-down and at half-mast  as “a two-fold statement: it is a reclamation of mourning, and it is an act of resistance against the symbolic violence of the American flag.”  

He writes, in an email sent to all students and faculty, “The flag and the state which it represents inhibits its citizens from developing cross-national and cross-cultural solidarity by deeming some people worthy of mourning while deeming others terrorists or criminals.”

In his letter to the Hampshire community, he addresses issues of race, nationalism and state-violence.  His act is in part a response to the Boston Bombings, which, he writes, were “an impetus for us all to consider the powerful symbolism of the flag.”  President Jonathan Lash  encourages the Hampshire community to “to turn a critical eye to the presence of the American flag” which he suggests “is mobilized by state forces in such times of mourning in order to justify further violence”.  

“We at Hampshire now ask: why does the state decide when we mourn?”

President Lash continued:

“In times of tragedy, the American public is urged to combat terrorism with
patriotism. The flag is upheld as a seemingly benign rallying point of
unity and pride, but it is also used to cultivate American exceptionalism
and perpetuate racist oppression. The state strategically brings certain
acts of violence into the public consciousness and excludes others to
create a culture wherein continued state violence is condoned.” 

This follows a recent campus-wide forum entitled, “The Flag on Our Front Lawn,” in which students engaged in an open dialogue about the flag’s prominent placing. This also marks a turn in Hampshire history, as it breaks a decades-long streak of administrative complacence with neoliberalism.

For the full letter to the community, click here.  

Augh I wish I’d attended Hampshire sometimes. This is one of those times.

Speaking truth to power from quite the pulpit.

fuckyeahsnackables:

Bill Skarsgård | “Shooting Stars” Photocall at Berlin International Film Festival - February 13, 2012

A cross between a cute lesbian and Steve Buscemi. 

Or, like, Macauly Culkin/ Steve Buscemi?

upperstories:

rubitrightintomyeyes:

duckysantonoff:

IM ON THE FREEWAY AND I LOOK OUT AND THIS SASSY MOTHERFUCKER IS JUST WAITING FOR ME TO FUMBLR MY PHONE OUT AND TAKE A PICTURE

That is a companion cube on a Jurassic Park jeep.

When science literally goes too far.


Dream life, basically.

upperstories:

rubitrightintomyeyes:

duckysantonoff:

IM ON THE FREEWAY AND I LOOK OUT AND THIS SASSY MOTHERFUCKER IS JUST WAITING FOR ME TO FUMBLR MY PHONE OUT AND TAKE A PICTURE

That is a companion cube on a Jurassic Park jeep.

When science literally goes too far.

Dream life, basically.

yesthatisascoreboard:

if your message to southern/flyover liberals/marginalized people living in the south and/or flyover country is “move,” you’re doing it wrong